

This Week: 1. Prayer 2. Meditation 3. Quote 4. Events 5. Book Recommendation Grace and Peace to you. As we step into Week 18 of our journey this year, let’s take a moment to focus on one of the most profound callings in our lives: loving our spouses with the same selfless devotion that Christ showed the church. Whether you are married, preparing for marriage, or simply seeking to grow in love, this week’s prayer and meditation invite us to reflect deeply on what it means to be a faithful and loving husband. Let’s open our hearts to God’s guidance as we seek to embody His love in our most cherished relationships. Prayer: Prayer: God, help me to be a faithful and loving husband. (Ephesians 5:25) Meditation: Meditation: Reflect on how you can love your wife (or future wife) as Christ loved the church. Quote: “Husbands must, therefore, concentrate on being strong for the sake of their wives. Ungodly men are strong for selfish reasons, and not for the sake of others. A godly husband uses his strength to give to her; he does not use his strength to take from her.” - Douglas Wilson Events: Tuesday - April 29 Morning Bible Study - 6am - 7:15am At the Church in the Tower Room Passage: Deuteronomy 4:1-2 Facilitator: Cleve Powell Thursday - May 1 Evening Bible Study - 8pm - 9pm At the Church in the Tower Room Passage: Deuteronomy 4:1-2 Facilitator: Cleve Powell Book Recommendation: What Did You Expect? Redeeming the Realities of Marriage By Paul David Tripp What Did You Expect? is a refreshingly honest and practical guide for couples at any stage of marriage. Tripp’s central message is that marriage is not about achieving perfection, but about embracing the daily, grace-filled process of growth, confession, forgiveness, and love. By rooting marriage in the gospel and committing to daily habits of grace, couples can experience the redemption and transformation God intends for their relationship In His Service, GraceMen

This devotional was initially sent to GraceMen on October 28, 2024 as a part of the Tuesday Morning Bible Study. Scripture : "Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable—if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise—think about these things. What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me—practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you." (Philippians 4:8-9, ESV) Devotion : As men, we face the constant pressure of the world’s noise—temptations to chase success, status, or pleasure in ways that lead us away from Christ. Paul’s words in Philippians 4:8-9 remind us that following Christ begins not only with what we do but how we think. Right actions flow from right thinking. Paul gives a filter for our thoughts: Is it true? Is it honorable? Is it pure? As Reformed believers, we recognize that the Christian life involves renewing our minds by the Word of God (Romans 12:2). Christ-centered thinking doesn’t come naturally; it requires discipline to reject worldly thoughts and fill our minds with what is praiseworthy—truth rooted in Scripture, reflections on Christ’s righteousness, and a desire to glorify God in every part of life. But Paul doesn’t stop with thinking—he moves to action. It’s not enough to meditate on these things; we must practice them. Our doctrine must shape our daily lives. Whether leading our families, working diligently, or engaging in the church, we are called to embody Christ's example, just as Paul encouraged his readers to imitate him. Men, this is a call to intentional living: guard your mind, dwell on truth, and put godly principles into practice. When we align our thoughts and actions with God's will, we experience the peace only He can give—a peace that equips us to stand firm no matter what challenges we face. Prayer : "Lord, help me to fill my mind with things that honor You. Teach me to think truthfully and act faithfully in every part of life. Let my thoughts and actions bring glory to Your name, and may Your peace rule my heart. Amen." Reflection : What thoughts do you need to replace with God's truth today? How can you practice what you know to be right? What influences shape your thoughts the most right now? Are there media, conversations, or habits that pull your mind away from Christ-centered thinking? How do you discern what is true, honorable, and pure in a world filled with competing ideas?Are you regularly in the Word, allowing Scripture to shape your discernment? Are your actions aligned with what you believe and think about? Are there areas where you need to grow in consistency between your faith and daily life? How do your thoughts affect your relationships with others—family, coworkers, friends? Are you thinking in ways that encourage humility, service, and love toward others? When do you experience the peace of God most deeply? How can you cultivate habits that foster God’s peace through both thought and practice? Who is an example of godly living that you can imitate, as Paul suggests? How can you surround yourself with men who encourage you toward excellence in both thought and behavior? In what practical ways can you take your thoughts captive today (2 Corinthians 10:5)? What specific steps will you take to replace negative or unhelpful thoughts with praiseworthy ones? These questions can help you reflect not only on how you think but how your thoughts drive action, leading to a life that glorifies God.

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